The perfect first date..

who pays?

Avoid looking like a gold digger-or an ATM

if HE asked you out:
its makes most guys fell good to foot the bill on the 1st date.Still,always genuinely offer to shell out for ur half.if the insists on treating,say thanks and spring for something later that night(like coffee)

if YOU asked him out:

be the first to reach for ur wallet-he is ur guest,so u should pony up.if he wont let u,
dont fight.Just say thank you.
(But if he doesnt even attempt to cough up cash all night,he's just rude)

On the date

what to do
going out to dinner puts at high risk for awkward silences.intead by these:

• the movies ..if ur nervous this is the perfect low-stress way to start the night
• window shopping
• something sporty(try ice skating) haha